First Time Getting a Massage? Here’s What to Expect

Massage in Portland, MaineAs a massage therapist, I am so used to physical touch that I often forget that it can be intimidating for people who have never before had a massage.  Some people are so nervous or unsure that they never even try – imagine all that relaxation they are missing out on!

I have put together a few pointers for newcomers who may want a massage but aren’t quite sure what to expect.

  • Cleanliness – You should expect your massage therapist to provide a clean environment with fresh linens changed between each client.  Your massage therapist will also expect you to be recently showered.  However, most massages include the scalp area, so you may leave with messier hair than you arrived with.
  • Hydration – Massage therapy helps to release unwanted toxins in the body, so it’s important to be well-hydrated when you arrive.  There will also be water for you to drink afterwards – you should definitely take advantage of this.
  • Nudity – Although it may be easier for the massage therapist when you are unclothed but covered, you can and should wear whatever makes you most comfortable.  Many newcomers feel better wearing underwear for their first massage, and that is totally fine.  You will always be draped.
  • Body Manipulation – There are thousands of ways to do a massage.  Your massage therapist will ask about problem areas, past injuries, and muscles that may be tight or sore.  This is your opportunity to tell them where you have pain or stiffness, what may make you uncomfortable, and even where you might be ticklish.  When you are getting the massage, just allow yourself to relax.  The massage therapist will move your limbs or tell you when they need you to move.  Unless they ask you to do something, just lay back and let them massage your cares away.
  • Comfort – You are there to relax and be pampered.  If you feel too warm or cold, if the pressure it too much or to little, or if you experience anything else that makes you uncomfortable, just tell your massage therapist.  Massage professionals are exactly that: professional.  Chances are they have experience in most situations, so don’t be shy and feel free to express yourself – especially if it’s a sigh of contentment.

If you have questions, please put them in the comment section or email me directly, I would love to hear from you!

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Kettlebells: An Awesome Exercise Option

Kettlebell Classes in Portland, MaineKettlebells are a really popular weight training tool that can give you a lot of bang for your exercise buck.  They were originally used in Russia and have become popular in the United States, especially among athletes.

In addition to resistance training, kettlebells also provide cardiovascular conditioning, increased endurance, improved agility, and better balance.

Because they are new to most people, and because they can be pretty heavy, it’s important to have proper instruction when you first start using kettlebells.  The exercises can involve swinging and jerking, which works well if you do it right, but it can be tough on your muscles and joints if you’re not doing it correctly.

If you want to try a kettlebell workout, check out some of these classes offered in Portland:

  • Body by John – Tons of kettlebell classes, personal training, boot camp, and other fun fitness activities.
  • Iron Balls Fitness – Instructor Frank Navarro offers private and group instruction.  He has trained police, firefighters, and college athletes, so if you’re the intense type, this might be the class for you.
  • The Body Architect – Kettlebell classes are offered five days a week and all levels are welcome.

It’s never too late to try something new, and kettlebells are a great way to get fit and stay that way!

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All We Need Is Love

It seems that in all of my readings lately there is a central theme of Love.  So, on this Valentine’s Day, I thought I’d reflect a bit about this beautiful four letter word that is both a noun and a verb.

My friend gave me this little book to read called, The Lazy Man’s Guide to Enlightenment by Thaddeus Golas.  It was published in the early 70s.  I gather that he explored many mind altering drugs to assist him with his theories, which makes it a fun little book to read!

Check out his first lines in the book.

I am a lazy man.  Laziness keeps me from believing that enlightenment demands effort, discipline, strict diet, non-smoking, and other evidences of virtue.  There is a paradise in and around you right now, and to be there you don’t even have to make a move.  All potential experiences are within you already.  You can open up to them at any time.

The central theme of this whole book is love.  It is the love that is in and around us right now which is this paradise of which he speaks.

He writes,

One of my psychedelic excursions had gotten off to a bad start, and I was sinking to a really satanic bummer.  As I looked about me at people turning evil, shrunken, colorless, odd, and weird, I suddenly thought, ‘Well, what did you think it was that needed to be loved?’  And just like that the doors opened and I was in paradise.

Now, I’m not going to run out to find some LSD to come to this same realization.  But gosh, that little question comes in handy when my mind turns to fear or judgement of another person.

When I’m able to switch into a mode of loving him or her, all of my fear goes away.  It’s interesting, because the other person doesn’t need to change a thing about their looks or actions for me to feel differently.  I just need to change my own perspective from fear to love. Continue reading

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New Year’s Intention Exercises

Do you feel invigorated when you think of a New Year?  I totally do!

I love the festivities, the feeling of a blank slate to create whatever I want, the enthusiasm to relish in rituals and set intentions.

Have you set your intentions for this new and beautiful New Year yet?

If not, here are a couple exercises I’ve come across that may be fun for you to do.

This first one is from my friend Colette Kenney.

1st take some time to center yourself in whatever way works best for you.   Once you feel quite inside, ask yourself the following questions:

“What is getting in my way?”

“What barriers am I holding up, that prevent me from getting what I want?”

“How am I not allowing what I want to occur?”

With a journal or piece of paper at your side, write down what comes to you for each question. When you are done, read it over with a kind and accepting heart, and love all of it, no matter what comes up. Because, you wouldn’t be who you are today without it.  Truly feel grateful for everything that shows up and all that it has taught you about yourself.

Now it’s time to release it. Whether releasing it into a flame, or with scissors or a paper shredder. Ceremoniously say good-bye to the old. Continue reading

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She Crossed The Line!

The other day my friend, Maddie, called me to ask if I’d support her by coming to a clothing party she was having for her new business, Jockey Person to Person.

She said, “This is me ‘Crossing the Line’ and stepping into my fullest self in my new business venture.”

Maddie was a participant in a workshop my friend, Jim Hammond and I led about a month ago called, Cross The Line.

We designed this workshop to assist people in identifying where they feel stuck in their lives in order to discover new, powerful, creative and fun ways to move out of “stuckness” and into action.

During this workshop each participant identified the limiting beliefs that were keeping them stuck in a particular area in their life.

We did exercises so they could make peace with these limiting beliefs in order to let them go.

Then we walked them through a process to look at this same area in their life from different perspectives.  This tool allows us to approach any area of difficulty in our lives from a place of personal power…rather than being victims of circumstances.

Out of this process comes a new perspective that resonates and inspires each participant to want to “cross the line” into a life of power and fulfillment.

So…of course I’d love to support Maddie in her new endeaver…so
much that I even offered to host a party!

It’s such an amazing feeling to see people actually take what they got out of a workshop you’ve spent energy creating and apply it to their “real” life.

Empowering people to embody their own power is what I love about
coaching and workshops. Continue reading

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